Different opinions

Or should I say that people are brought up differently and have different views regarding their actions. Was talking to a friend about why majority thinks that gals stand to lose in flings. Both of us felt that in sex, no one loses out. Since we can't assume that both gender gets to orgasm, but we assume that both has enjoyed the process of making out. Please be noted that my friend is a girl. Anyway, I forsee abuses will be directed to her 'sluts' and 'bitches'. For goodness sick people who don't have flings just miss out on the process of having unattached sex. Thats all. Don't be offended, I'm not saying that you guys are geeks or anything negative, just that you just miss out some fun. Since fun is a social construct, we shall not refute into anyone's defination of fun which includes the masses out there. chowzzzz